do you sometimes miss someone who you don't talk to now?
A little bit but not significantly. At first I thought a lot of people had changed, but then I realised it was me who had changed and I just don’t fit with some of those people anymore. So I guess I miss the good times I shared with those people but I don’t really miss them as such. Idk I sound like a bad person/friend but why hang out with someone you no longer have anything in common with and have to force yourself to get on with? Call me selfish but I’d like to do things and surround myself with people that make me happy, not tired.
“One day, when you’re thinking back and trying to decide the moment that made you happiest, I hope it is difficult.
I hope it’s so difficult because that’s how many moments you spent happy.
That’s how many moments were so good you cannot just choose one.”— (via desertyears)
Have you lost friends because of it like I have but during aswell? It's so hard to find that balance.
If I’ve lost friends it hasn’t been because of my relationship with Jesse, it’s been because I’ve realised how happy I am and that I should only surround myself with people who make me happy. I have a handful of amazing people in my life and I really could not be happier. If someone is a true friend they won’t let a relationship get in the way of you and them
Do you feel as if your relationship has consumed you and most of your life. My first relationship did that and when it ended I wasn't left with many people and I still am the same, pls give advice.
I spend 99% of my time with my boyfriend and that’s probably not healthy but I still see my best mate like every few days and have time to myself so it works for me. I guess you just need to find a balance that works for you. Seeing Jesse all the time works for us but other couples might need space and time apart so it’s dependant on each couple hey. Hope you’re all g love!